One of the biggest issues most guys have is after they’ve FINALLY gotten a woman’s phone number, they’re really unsure of what to do next.
I mean, you know you’ve got to call her, but what are you going to say?
This is where most guys stumble.
Look at this email I got recently from a reader:
I keep running into the same problem over and over. Once I get the number, I call them.
I’ll leave a message if they don’t answer, but when I get them on the phone it never
goes well, I’m not really sure what to talk about. How can I handle this?
I used to work in sales, phone sales to be specific. And when I started, I was handed a sales pitch… one I had to memorize.
Well, until I memorized it, what do you think I did?
I read it from a script. Damn right.
By reading from a script, it gave me the ability to add inflection, tone and gave me the confidence to keep going.
And eventually I didn’t need the script and by then I had figured out other things to add or remove from the script to make it even more effective for me.
As you may already know, I’m not big on theory. I think it’s important to know but I think what you really want to know is HOW to do it.
Thats why the Insider Internet Dating program works so well, because it shows you HOW to do it. Just plug into the system and follow each step.
So I’m going to give you a HOW TO… What to say to a woman on the phone you just met online on adultfrienedfinder app login.
This is a great phone script you can use to help with your initial conversation with women you meet online. Just read it word for word if you have to until you feel comfortable enough to ‘wing it’.
Hi (her name),
its _____ from (the site)
Hey whats up?
I got your email, had a few free minutes and I figured I’d call you… I hope you’re not as scary as the last girl I spoke with… haha
I’m curious why you’re doing this…. (pause)
Listen I know you’re REALLY unattractive and you can’t get a date and thats why you’re doing this ….right? ( said in a sarcastic tone)
(talk about experiences you have had on this…..in a funny way… funny stuff that happened to you, or in general.)
See what shes all about. See where the conversation takes you.
Your goal now is to just get a feel for her, have a conversation with her and let it roll.
If you enjoy talking with her, if you’ve got a good ‘vibe’, then go ahead and make plans to get together.
NEVER call it a date.
When you call it a date, it puts you in the same category as every other guy who’s CHASING her… which you don’t want to do.
The other guys are met with a brick wall, whereas you won’t have to deal with that, because you’ve gone UNDER THE RADAR.
This is something so subtle, yet has such a powerful effect.
Remember, you want to get together with her…. when she’s thinking date, she’ll have all of these preconceived ideas of how a date should be. So don’t mention the word date.
From now on Get Together = Date
Are you with me?
HOW DO YOU MAKE THE ‘DATE’?
I’ll simply ask her:
Hey (her name). what’s your schedule like this week?
ok, lets meet up for a drink on (pick a day)
at (pick a time)
does that work for you? (if she sounds unsure, don’t continue, call her out on it… ‘you don’t sound too sure about this… (shut up and let her talk)’ )
Cool, it will be fun to meet up….. but if you’re bigger than me or shorter than my dog, we’re gonna have to just be friends. (chuckle)
See you on (the day)
Not too hard. All you need to do is follow it, then move on to the next step.